As I’ve recently mused, financial independence won’t solve life’s problems. We will never “arrive.” We will never achieve perfection. An impactful 2018 study, nicknamed the Blue Dot Effect (a stand-in for the more lumbering “prevalence-induced concept change” title), helps us to understand the mind’s tendency toward finding problems, even where none exist. The results have broad implications for individuals and members of a progressing society.
Continue reading “The Blue Dot Effect: Pessimism in a Beautiful World”Emotional Fragility: Is This the New Normal?
Until the advent of the Scientific Revolution and the pronounced growth of technology and tools of human innovation, the vast majority of humans lived in squalid conditions of abject poverty. Picture your modern neighbor with three garages filled with late-model cars, his-and-her jet-skis, and a really impressive angle grinder. In 1437 this same middle-class citizen would be just another expendable, filth-ridden pawn serving some narcissistic warlord. He likely lived with his family in fetid conditions, in very poor health, with a narrow range of skills necessary to provide life or keep from being brutally executed in front of blood-thirsty neighbors hungry for a good-ole’-fashioned Saturday rip-about. Life was extremely difficult for the vast majority of humanity until very recently. Emotional fragility was not a useful trait.
Life, without question, sucked.
Today, developed societies have everything. We squabble over macronutrient ratios and the pros and cons of carbs while failing to appreciate that our ancestors would have dropped dead of a heart attack if they stepped into a Costco or the produce section at Whole Foods. We have vacuum cleaners and lawn mowers that vacuum and mow without us even being present! The internet provides endless information and the ability to make (in theory) well-informed choices and decisions to better our lives.
Life is unquestionably better and easier in modern times. Yet for so many of us…life still sucks. We aren’t happy, and we’re getting less happy every year.
Why are we so unhappy when life is so much easier? Are we becoming an emotionally fragile society?
Continue reading “Emotional Fragility: Is This the New Normal?”Hi, How Are You? I’m Privileged.
I had something different for you today, but the events of late have given me pause. I hope they have for you too.
Ok, here we go…
Continue reading “Hi, How Are You? I’m Privileged.”Welcome to Your Emotions, Your Guide Today
Hey, you wanna do something weird? Yeah?? Me too. Let’s take a tour of our emotions.
Come on, trust me, man, it will be cool. It’s not like that.
I think doing this is going to be fun…
Continue reading “Welcome to Your Emotions, Your Guide Today”Do Tough Times Make Tough People?
History provides context to the current events of our lives. If you snoozed through your high school history class, the global shutdown and pandemic of the novel coronavirus might seem like the worst event to ever face mankind. While it is certainly not, many of us might (or will soon) find the pandemic to be the largest global crisis we’ve faced in our lives. It begs the question: Do tough times make tough people?
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